If you only need to see which files will be affected, without seeing the differences between them, you can use the --dry-run option to rsync. Let's set up a sandpit for testing:
$ cd /tmp $ mkdir -p testing/{a,b} $ cd testing/ $ touch a/hello a/world $ ls a hello world $ rsync -rv --append-verify a/ b $ ls b hello world
Now perform modifications to the contents of a:
$ echo 123 > a/hello $ touch a/abc
Now use rsync ... --dry-run ... to see what would happen:
$ rsync -rv --append-verify --dry-run a/ b sending incremental file list abc hello sent 103 bytes received 22 bytes 250.00 bytes/sec total size is 4 speedup is 0.03 (DRY RUN)
We can see no changes were actually made to b:
$ ls b hello world $ cat b/hello $
If you need to see the differences between the directories you can use diff:
$ /bin/diff -aurN a b diff -aurN a/hello b/hello --- a/hello 2018-12-13 08:16:23.376761456 +1100 +++ b/hello 2018-12-13 08:16:11.306761686 +1100 @@ -1 +0,0 @@ -123
If b is on a remote box and you need to see the differences, you'll need to create a local copy of b and then you can diff.