The following is an easy corollary from noncommutative Khintchine's inequality (see, e.g., Vershynin's high-dimensional probability book, Theorem 6.5.1).
Let $A$ be an $n\times n$ symmetric random matrix whose entries on and above the diagonal are independent, mean zero random variables. Then $$ \mathbb{E}\|A\| \lesssim \sqrt{\log n}\ \mathbb{E}\max_i \| A_i\|_2 $$ where $\|A\|$ denotes the operator norm of $A$ and $A_i$ denotes the $i$-th row of $A$.
Question: Is $\sqrt{\log n}$ necessary in the bound above?
Vershynin's book claims that it is necessary (Exercise 6.5.4) but I am unable to find an example. The bound seems quite loose to me, actually, and it is already loose for diagonal matrices and Wigner matrices. I looked up the literature, and for entries that are gaussians (with different variances) the bound above is definitely loose, as it is known that when $A_{ij}\sim N(0,b_{ij}^2)$ (due to van Handel and others) we have $$ \mathbb{E}\|A\| \lesssim \max_i\sqrt{\sum_j b_{ij}^2} + (\max_{i,j} b_{ij})\sqrt{\log n}. $$ So the hope of finding a tight example is not to have Gaussian entries, and I don't have a clue for this. Usually I think the $\sqrt{\log n}$ factor would come from the maximum of $n$ gaussians in tightness examples.